We may live in what Harper’s Bazaar calls “unsexy times,” yet popular culture is making a raunchy handbrake turn, with music, cinema and fiction turning up the heat.

Case in point: Disney+ and Hulu’s Rivals, a decadent and steamy delight based on Jilly Cooper’s 1980s tale of rural social elites. Dubbed as “the silliest, sexiest show” of 2024 by The Atlantic, it served up scenes of nude tennis and mile high hook-ups, offering a welcome escape from the everyday.

The resurgence of desire isn’t just confined to the small screen. TikTok’s #spicybooktok is overflowing with recommendations for romantic and erotic fiction, prompting the platform’s parent company to launch its own imprint this month to publish trending titles. Readers are also flocking to real-world romance-only bookstores like the evocatively named Ripped Bodice in Los Angeles, driving sales of romance and erotica titles to a staggering 39 million in 2023, double 2020’s figure (Circana Bookscan).

Audio erotica (covered by VML Intelligence here) is also on the up. Subscription-based audio erotica app Quinn has grown its revenue by 440% in the past two years. Spotify is capitalizing on interest by launching a "Spicy audiobooks" hub hosting titles rated on a “spice meter” from one chili (“flirty and full of feels”) through to five (“explosive”).

Behavioral psychologist Jo Hemmings tells VML Intelligence that the return to sex and romance is a form of escapism. “These fantasies often cater to idealized or exaggerated forms of intimacy,” she says, “such as perfectly choreographed encounters or relationships filled with chemistry, which real-world experiences rarely live up to. It may point to unmet emotional needs, the impacts of a rapidly changing world, and a recalibration of how intimacy is expressed and experienced.”

Another interpretation is that people want to see their sexuality represented more broadly, or through a different lens to the traditional male gaze. Sean Baker, director of Oscar’s Best Picture hopeful Anora, told BK Mag that filmmakers are “in a place now where we’re approaching sexuality, hopefully, in a more responsible and aware way, and it’s going to be interesting to see the way it plays out.” Indeed, many of the new wave of movies and TV that explore sexuality cover less well-trodden territory. Halijna Reijn’s Babygirl is about a midlife female CEO who has an affair with an intern, and Luca Guadagnino’s Queer tells the story of an American expat’s infatuation with a younger man.

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Nicole Kidman and Harris Dickinson in A24 Studios Babygirl written and directed by Halina Reijn. Credit: Niko Tavernise

Romantic fiction is also giving greater space to authors from diverse backgrounds and telling stories about atypical romantic relationships. Caden Armstrong, who owns the adult romance-focused Book Lovers Bookshop in Edinburgh, describes it as “an incredibly diverse genre that highlights so many incredible voices and perspectives.”

In tandem, in an era in which women and LBGTQ people are seeing their rights curtailed, reclaiming sexuality can be a mark of empowerment. A wave of female singers from Charli XCX to Chappell Roan and FKA Twigs to Doechii are unabashedly asserting their sexuality in their lyrics, and on stage, while Sabrina Carpenter, named one of Time magazine’s Next100, has been triggering some pearl-clutching for her tour performances in tiny crystal-encrusted bodysuits. Sex educator and academic Ericka Hart told the Standard that this is part of “a continued wave of asserting bodily autonomy.”

Sexy is back, but this time, it's being viewed through a more inclusive lens, symbolizing empowerment, escape, optimism, and joy.

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